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Pain is the only method of growth in my life

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Pain is the only method of growth in my life
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Pain is the only method of growth in my life.Either instant pain or delayed pain.Fear and being able to tame a fear has been the other lesso...

Pain is the only method of growth in my life.Either instant pain or delayed pain.Fear and being able to tame a fear has been the other lesson. To have become a full blown alcoholic by the time I was thirty eight has become my only success.To have to attempt to grow up from say nineteen to forty five years of age has become more than a challenge. It become a means to an end.If you like the ultimate adventure living in raw reality watching the brain attempt to clear itself and become restored to sanity.Problems that should have been resolved in my teenage and early twenties.The ability to be self critical had left me allowing me to swim in a world without control, totally out of control I destroyed my life, and somewhere in that destruction became the seeds to rebuild, The blind faith in God of my insane mind forcing me not to react in the old alcoholic way,and when I did teaching me what was wrong.What an amazing miracle of life to be offered a gift of happiness and life. Recieving small ideas that unlock and show what your allergy is capable of.My desease caused my emotional problems and not vice a versersa. The drink acsentuated the emotional problems causing the trigger that sparked them into life. Genetically I must have been predisposed to becoming an alcoholic , but I needed the socialogical trigger.Now I am a changed person my cells have mutated so that I have no tolerance to alcohol, quickly turning into a hopeless alcoholic.My mind at times tends to clear . Mentally I become a different person having the unique caperbility of looking into the mind of a chronic alcoholic.But often I have to live that tortured life with its insane personality clashes and stress.Nowing the answers is no help when the desease becomes full blown.Ill health seems to spark off these feelings causing me lost days spent in the quagmire of self pity drifting aimlessly on tides of pain.

Pain is the only method of growth in my life

Pain is the only method of growth in my life.Either instant pain or delayed pain.Fear and being able to tame a fear has been the other lesso...

be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else

Fraser Trevor

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Title: be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else
Author: Fraser Trevor
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"“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” -- Ralph Waldo Emerso...

be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else

"“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” -- Ralph Waldo Emerso...

Sooner or later a crisis will enter your life,

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Sooner or later a crisis will enter your life,
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Sooner or later a crisis will enter your life, and how you meet it > determines your future happiness and success. > > Since the b...

Sooner or later a crisis will enter your life, and how you meet it > determines your future happiness and success. > > Since the beginning of time, everyone has been called upon > to meet such a crisis. > > A closer look will show you that most "crisis situations" > are opportunities to either advance or stay where you are. > > Indeed, most changes in your life will take place out of either > 'inspiration' or 'desperation.' > > Whatever comes your way, give it meaning and transform it > into something of value. > > Your personal growth is the process of responding positively > to change. > > A precious stone cannot be polished without friction, > nor humanity perfected without trials.

Sooner or later a crisis will enter your life,

Sooner or later a crisis will enter your life, and how you meet it > determines your future happiness and success. > > Since the b...

Affront difficult situations always with a feeling of security, because the Light is always there!

Fraser Trevor

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Title: Affront difficult situations always with a feeling of security, because the Light is always there!
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Affront difficult situations always with a feeling of security, because the Light is always there! ...

<div align="center" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; text-align: center;">Affront difficult situations always with a feeling of security, because the Light is always there!</div><div align="center" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; text-align: center;">                                                               Yehuda Berg</div><div align="center" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; text-align: center;">                                                              (The power of Kabala, 2004)</div>

Affront difficult situations always with a feeling of security, because the Light is always there!

Affront difficult situations always with a feeling of security, because the Light is always there! ...

"Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships.

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Title: "Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships.
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Brian Tracy said..."Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships." Think about it...when you look...

Brian Tracy said..."Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships." Think about it...when you look back at the end of your life what will really matter? Five words...the quality of your relationships. So here's the question: If your relationships are the most important part of your life, what are you doing to make them all they can be? STEP 1 - Determine what you can do to make the relationship work...then do it.                Demonstrate respect and kindness to the other person, whether he/she deserves it or not. STEP 2 - Do not expect anything in return. Zero, zip, nada.  <div style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; font-weight: bold;">STEP 3 - Do not allow anything the other person says or does (no matter how     annoying!) to affect you. In other words, don't take the bait.</div> STEP 4 - Be persistent with your graciousness and kindness. Often we give up too soon, especially when others don't respond in kind.   Remember to expect nothing in return. At times (usually few), the relationship can remain challenging, even toxic, despite your 100 percent commitment and self-discipline. When this occurs, you need to avoid being the "Knower" and shift to being the "Learner." Avoid Knower statements/ thoughts like "that won't work," "I'm right, you are wrong," "I know it and you don't," "I'll teach you," "that's just the way it is," "I need to tell you what I know," etc. Instead use Learner statements/thoughts like "Let me find out what is going on and try to understand the situation," "I could be wrong," "I wonder if there is anything of value here," "I wonder if..." etc. In other words, as a Learner, be curious!

"Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships.

Brian Tracy said..."Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships." Think about it...when you look...

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Pain is the only method of growth in my life

be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else

Sooner or later a crisis will enter your life,

Affront difficult situations always with a feeling of security, because the Light is always there!

"Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships.

Britain On The Line

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